If you wanted to predict the weather, you could look at past weather patterns, and you
would get a pretty good idea of the temperatures and the rainy season.

The past would be a good indicator of the future.

The same is not true for your relationships.

Your relationship history is not your relationship future.

Your relationship future is not limited by your experiences of the past or by your disappointments of the past.

You can’t change the weather, but you can change your relationship pattern;

You can learn from your experiences and avoid mistakes of the past.